Injuries of Passion

I understand that passion means something different depending on context, but to me, passion is that thing that pushes you forward no matter what kind of pain it puts you through. That being said, sometimes that passion can get you injured.

This type of thing is most noticeable when we’re watching sports and keeping up with the figures. The passion the players show indicate the severity of the injury more times than not! I play fantasy football and I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been frustrated by one (or all) of my best players getting severely injured mid-game. This is the fortitude shown within the person passionately playing their position measured in injury.

My theoretical view may be seen differently by others as, perhaps, carelessness or overwork but, at times, this is a direct result of passion.

My passion is helping people. This injures in a different way.

My career path had been very successful for over 2 decades before I started to experience the pain from my passion. I had been warned in the beginning that the posture held by hairstylists could cause severe spinal damage if ignored. I ignored it for too long.

When I started feeling the pain, it seemed like I was just overworking myself. I figured I was just working too long or needed to keep up with chiropractic appointments.

No.

I have irreversible injuries that allopathic medicine cannot help with unless I agree to allow them to drug me up or cut me open.

As a holistic health professional, that just doesn’t seem right.

Of course, I have never been comfortable with allopathic (Western) medical practice. This is the main reason I chose this career. There was never a time when I was comfortable with a “doctor”. I know that there are plenty of others that can relate to this. Maybe I am speaking to you?

All of this was written to explain my reasoning behind leaving a successful career but, in all honesty, I believe I have found my true calling. I have alway been a counselor, advisor, coach, confidant or guide, especially to my hair clients. My natural insight has always allowed me to relate to others even when I don’t want to speak at all. I have, inadvertently, become “family” to some clients and been called at very odd hours of the night by others, only because they feel that close to me. None of this was intentional. All of this taught me to set and enforce boundaries.

My passion has caused me injury…. Keeping in mind; only pain teaches good lessons! I am ready to go into this with everything I’ve got!

2020 in the 6th month

There have been numerous challenges in this first half of the year, not the least of which would be the global effects of the novel coronavirus. Jobs, family and overall security are still at risk and there is little anyone can do about it. The stress factor has increased with the coverage of fear-infused statistics and incessant health information that had its only basis in keeping clean, which we should be doing anyway. As it turns out, we were not doing a very good job of that in certain locations.

For one, jobs have impossible regulation changes and are forced to be compliant or shut down completely. Some people are losing their jobs and businesses because it just got too expensive paying rent while under a mandatory shutdown. Even with the government and bank assistance, it proves to be difficult and not very timely of a financial rescue. The burden has been too much for most small business and some large companies, as well. Most of these have had to downsize tremendously just to stay afloat enough to rebuild, and then, must retrain very frightened employees in brand new protocol. No matter where people go, the problem is everywhere.

Family is at risk because our elders are being denied care and company at the same time. With risk of contagion, young visitors have only recently been allowed in senior homes. Some of those seniors have already passed away from loneliness and had it attributed to covid-19, which technically could be true. Other seniors have passed away from lack of care with fear overriding health care workers sense of responsibility toward their patients. Dehydration (and thirst) is one of the prominent causes of death to seniors in these homes. Still more families have independent elders or elders living in the family home, like I do. Our concern lies with the actions and contact outside the home of every household member! We must take extra care, even after we get back home. We don’t need any chance of inadvertent infection risking our families lives.

Lastly, our security is compromised while we sit at home, under quarantine or go to work, risking our family’s health. The way of life has completely changed for most considering these two choices. The results are in: Financial security is sketchy, at best. The health risk is unspeakable and unpredictable. Both seem to be completely out of anyone’s control. Then there is the risk of doing simple things like going to the grocery or the bank, that can turn sour just because someone doesn’t believe the protocol should include them. The risk of someone violently defending their right to NOT wear a mask, thus endangering all in contact thereof, is a very real threat. The blatant disregard for others in the middle of a pandemic crisis is concerning at the very least!

When I put this SINGLE occurrence of the year into such a summary, it would seem that health, as a whole, should be at the forefront of our combined thoughts. Unfortunately, that has not been the case. Politics, racial injustice, violence, and even a dead whale in the middle of the Amazon forest has effectively turned our gaze away from our own health and wellbeing. The risks we all take every single day is just as much of a concern as any of these things, or maybe more, considering personal health affects us all. Everything we do as individuals affects our world as much as an asteroid narrowly missing our planet (yes, that happened too). Until we can each take responsibility for our actions, I fear it may get worse.

When it comes to wellness…

When it comes to wellness, it is very important to share thoughts and feelings. Even more important to share those thoughts and feelings with those that care to empathize with them. Even more important to be open to responses to those thoughts and feelings.

There is a lot that goes on with wellness; more than just the mind-body-spirit connection. All things influence and challenge our wellness and we should all be aware of those things that challenge our wellness. In order to do that, we can exercise our most important resource; awareness!

Being aware of what influences any given response is the first step in knowing how to heal yourself. Without knowing what the issue is, one would be hard-pressed to fix it! This is where patience comes into the game. Sometimes it takes a while to figure out the origin of certain issues. To face one’s fears is more important than one would think!

Wellness is more than cutting down junk food and adding more veggies to your life. It is your entire thought process around what wellness is, and is not. There are stories of people with eating disorders finding balance with exercise and those with addiction problems finding solace in groups, but these solutions do not work the same for everyone. Every body is different. We have to figure out what works for us as individuals. Following a pack mindset will keep us in trouble, that’s a guarantee!

Being able to share your individual story to help others is a significant part of healing. In this manner, the healing begins with the individual. The process continues and is passed on as the healing progresses from individual to individual. In theory, this can help the world heal, but in reality it is the mindset that must be healed first. As long as the popular world puts media ahead of its elders and learning from experience, we will have trouble changing the mindset. I am working to be able to share my story(ies) with those that can empathize with it to facilitate their healing as well as my own.

Those that currently have this healing mindset are often overlooked and have limited and stunted options when it comes to health and healing. I am working to be the advocate for this awakened mindset. Those that understand that the healing cycle does not end with allopathic medicine and it’s finite beliefs. To this awakened mindset, the words “there is no cure” brings the question “with chemicals and surgery? “, instead of a sense of dread. These are th3r few that understand that there is more to health and healing than cutting people open and poisoning them. And also, this is the very first step toward the awakened mindset.

I Am your guide.